• Kat and the Husband Dude stand with arms crossed beside their blue Camaro on Halloween night. He grins proudly beneath a skull cowboy hat while Kat stares deadpan at the camera. Behind them, their suburban home glows with Halloween lights, jack-o'-lanterns, skeleton decorations, and thick theatrical fog.

    War and Peace

    What began as a harmless neighborhood Halloween decorating contest escalated into a full-scale military operation involving reconnaissance missions, heavy artillery, and weapons of mass decoration. Unfortunately, only one combatant knew there was a war.

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  • Silver-haired writer Kat Rae smiles while typing at her laptop in a cozy, cluttered home office. Her black cat Luna watches from the windowsill, while Lillibeth Scales, a dinosaur dressed in a denim jacket and leopard-print skirt, stands among books, papers, and craft supplies. A dusty Angel Who Swears folder emerges from the clutter.

    Let Them Eat Cake

    Six years, three forced job changes, and one ridiculous pre-employment assessment later, I rediscovered something I’d buried under a doom pile of misplaced priorities. I’m a writer, dammit. And apparently, I’m also responsible for Fake Brian’s birthday cake.

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  • A silver-haired Kat dressed as the Bride of Frankenstein reclines in a laboratory, reaching toward Lillibeth the dinosaur. Benson the skeleton stands beside her, with Lucy, Luna, hydrangeas, and assorted Angel Who Swears memorabilia surrounding them.

    It’s Alive! Again.

    They said it couldn’t be done. Actually, nobody said that. But after six years of silence, a little technological necromancy, and a questionable amount of caffeine, Angel Who Swears is alive. Again. And this time, I brought friends.

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Hi. I’m Kat.

I’m a recovering good girl, professional overthinker, enthusiastic user of the F-word, and despite my best attempts at EVERYTHING ELSE, a writer. I write about marriage, family, getting older, music, work, and the everyday absurdities you just can’t make up.

Angel Who Swears is what happens to all of it.